How did I miss that lesson?

Okay to piggyback on yesterdays post I totally just realized that I really have no idea how to date.  Pat was the first guy I ever lived with and I’ve been moving guys in and out ever since.  Seriously ever relationship that I have had since then that lasted more than a month has ended with me living with him or more often than not him living with me.  So I just realized that I completely missed the lesson on dating without kids and even more than that now I do have a kid, so apparently I’m two classes behind and seriously creeping up on 30.  30 is the new 20 right?  I know that I have to get out of my current relationship, stat, but I need to figure out the hows of the whole thing.  It’s complicated but I really think that I need to figure out me first before I can be in a relationship with someone.  I’m not sure what I want on a day to day basis and I’m in no position to plan the long term right now.  But I’m a little worried that I totally don’t know how to date.  What is the protocol for an almost 30 single mother?

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